Why People Pleasing Will Only Hold Your Team Back

Why People Pleasing Will Only Hold Your Team Back

As a former people pleaser, I spent many years making (or should I say trying to make) my bosses and teams happy. But after a while, I realized that nothing good comes from repeatedly sacrificing myself for what someone else wants or needs. If anything, it’s the very thing that keeps me and everyone else from moving forward. 

Why Having Empathy is Nonnegotiable

Why Having Empathy is Nonnegotiable

For me, empathy is all about removing barriers to understand where someone else is coming from (even if I don’t always agree with them) by choosing to see THEIR feelings, thoughts, and experiences from THEIR perspective versus my own. Similarly, it’s also being understood on the same level by my colleagues, friends, and family members.

How to Unlock Your Authenticity and Become a Superhero

How to Unlock Your Authenticity and Become a Superhero

4 Key Ingredients to Achieve Success (a.k.a. my secret sauce)

Remember to use fear as fuel – did you know that F.E.A.R. stands for ‘false evidence appearing real’? So next time you’ve got negative thoughts posing as evidence, lean into the fear and replace every “I can’t” with “How can I?”
Be patient but know your worth – no matter how tempting it may be, don’t let others be the judge of your worth and what you’re capable of.

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